The Reality of "Sex Dating" Sites

There are thousands of sites promising instant hookups. Most are not what they seem. Here is how to spot the real from the fake.

Warning Signs of Fake Sites

  • Bot Messages: You get 10 messages within seconds of signing up (before you even upload a photo).
  • Credit Card Required for "Verification": Legitimate sites might ask for payment for features, but "free ID verification" via credit card is often a scam.
  • Generic Photos: Profiles look like supermodels or stock photos.

Better Alternatives

Instead of sketchy "hookup sites," consider mainstream apps that are sex-positive or specific lifestyle communities. Verified user bases and robust moderation tools make for a safer experience.